31. Although a balance or harmony between partners clearly
develops over time in a relationship, it is also a factor in initial
attraction and interest in a partner. That is, to the extent that
two people share similar verbal and nonverbal habits in a first
meeting, they will be more comfortable with one another. For
example, fast-paced individuals talk and move quickly and are
more expressive, whereas slow-paced individuals have a
different tempo and are less expressive. Initial interactions
between people at opposite ends of such a continuum may be
more difficult than those between similar types. In the case of
contrasting styles, individuals may be less interested in
pursuing a relationship than if they were similar in interaction
styles. Individuals with similar styles, however, are more
comfortable and find that they just seem to “click” with one
another. Thus, may provide a selection
filter for the initiation of a relationship.
① information deficit
② cultural adaptability
③ meaning negotiation
④ behavioral coordination
⑤ unconditional acceptance
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